USE A CONDOM IDIOT

Use A CONDOM! DON’T BE AN IDIOT. I swear I want to start some sort of group that promotes the use of condoms. Birth control making you fat? Child support adding up? GET SMART…USE A CONDOM!

Best believe I learned my lesson. I had my son at 21 and I feel it was still a tad too young. Either way, I love my son…and now that he IS here, I have a bond with him that nobody can break. He is my world. I love him with every ounce of my sangre! Lol Although, no matter how much I love him…ONE is enough till my life is on track, I have my own home (MINE! NOT RENT), and can afford it. I'll get myself off if we don’t have condoms. I could not bare to have another child and ruin his or her life by my stupidity & negligence, or need to fill a blank in some sad excuse of a relationship. There are NO excuses…only good choices and bad ones.

I know some of the parents won’t feel too COMFORTABLE with someone insinuating to have SAFE sex…b/c instead of focusing on SAFE…you focus on SEX.! Well will you feel COMFORTABLE when your 15 or even 17yr old daughter comes to tell you that she is knocked up?!; or your 15 or 17yr old son tells you he got some girl pregnant?! “SAFE SEX IS GREAT SEX” -Lil’ Wayne- If you don’t like what I have to say, well that is just too damn bad. FOR THE KIDS…don’t pretend like NOBODY ever informed you that unprotected sex leads to BABIES! I don't care how much better it supposedly feels without it, nothing feels better than waking up every 3hours to feed a baby, changing poopy pampers, and being vomited on...sense my sarcasm?! Think you only have to deal with it in the beginning? There's potty training, tantrums at home, tantrums in public, ER trips that end up being absolutely nothing but normal, ER trips that are scary as Hell, rebellion, puberty, school, making sure they do their homework and get good grades, buying new clothes ALL the time (its either clothes don't fit, or the style is changing), helping your kid do math homework when YOU can't even remember how to do it, getting over the frequent statement "I HATE YOU!", dealing with the chores, getting your kid to get off the phone and computer and get a damn job, getting your kid to stop being dependent on your cash flow! There is soooooo much more but this is a blog, not a book.

Let’s change the future here people! PLEASE. Promote the use of condoms! Not only will it dramatically lower the teen pregnancy rate, but will lower the increasing rate of sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS/HIV, cancers, etc. Quit trying to hide your knowledge of what YOU KNOW could prevent these things just by quickly informing your children, family, and friends. It’s not necessary for details. Kid’s are curious…and nowadays I’m pretty sure they will google it anyways. Lol Don't be your child's friend...but be a parent who is interested in their lives. Yelling at them for anything and everything just keeps them from telling you things. TRUST ME....PERSONAL EXPERIENCE HERE!! I was my mother's test child. lol My younger sister's definitely received the more understanding side of her. Love ya Mom!